Talk Reason Men & Women Save Nagging

Many women ask the male partner in order to reveal the things that bother them.However, most men just ignore and assume it's not something that needs to be said.This does not mean that lovers do not care or try to appear strong.
A recent study says, most men thought that discussing the issue with the woman simply a waste of time. This attitude applies not only to adult men, but also in boys. The study, which will be published in the journal Child Development, found that when faced with the problem, boys acting like men.
"For years, popular psychologist insisted that boys and men want to tell their problems, but was defeated by fear, or shame looks weak," said Amanda J. Rose, professor of psychology and art at the University of Missouri College.
"The moment when asked the boy told of the problems, they express anxiety differently with girls," said Rose. He added, "The response of children men in show, they were talking about totally useless."
Researchers from the University of Missouri conducted four separate studies and gather information on nearly 2,000 children and adolescents. The result is quite surprising. The girls told to talk about issues affecting them makes them feel cared for and understood.
But, boy was talking about their problems would lead to intimidation. They avoid the discussion because they feel embarrassed and feel strange, and wasting time.
That is why, it takes a different approach for parents to approach the girls and boys"For boys, it's helpful to explain to them, that discuss some issues will not waste time," said Rose.Nevertheless, parents should not force the child to vent, because it really makes them feel more insecure.
And in the face of a girl, do not talk about them excessively because it will lead to depression and anxiety. "Girls should be told, that discuss not only how to cope, but can get a solution through discussions," he said as quoted from Shine.