Dilemma Hate and Love Mothers Work

Many working women are facing a dilemma after having children. Concentrate on domestic affairs and or a 'super mom', and divide themselves into a professional and mother.The poll titled 'Mom Secrets' by Today and Parenting.com found, two contradictory things are happening in the mother worked. On the one hand, the woman complained about time spent away from children while in the workplace.On the other hand, mothers often make the job as an escape from the routine at home and take care of children such as child fights, constantly changing their diaper or toddler tantrums. At that time, even the busiest work even as a calm oasis.
The survey found that working mothers experiencing complicated emotions about the job and manage the household. Than 26,000 women who took part in the survey, 74 percent said they worked outside the home. Here are some details that captured the poll:
1. As many as 42 percent said they prefer to add 50 percent of the time at work rather than spend time with their children.
2. 20 percent of working mothers judge other mothers are too busy working.
3. One in five mothers said, would choose a career that is more flexible if the need to stop working. While 1 in 10 mothers said, wants to concentrate on a career.
4. Nearly a third of mothers admitted working as a way of escape from child care.
Survey write some expression of love-hate mothers. An anonymous writes: "I am saddened to have to work all day at the office. But when I go home and spend time with children, I feel stressed, exhausted and overwhelmed."
Others claim, choosing the best child care for loved their work according to education, but they were secretly hoping to take care of the child. While other mothers to write something simple yet deep, "I feel guilty every day when going to work."
Woman's anxiety about a lot more work due to society's view, that women should take care of children and families. "Many women are happy to work while raising children. But they seemed to be showing a sad face to the world," said the report quoted a poll from MSNBC.